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Winter 2025 blogs

Christmas is often painted as the most magical time of the year, a season of joy, family, and celebration. But let’s be honest: it can also bring stress, financial pressure, and a never-ending to-do list. If you’re feeling the weight of festive expectations, you’re not alone.
Here are some practical tips to help you enjoy the season without losing your peace of mind (or your bank balance!).

Don’t Go Into Debt for One Day

Christmas is just one day. Overspending can lead to months of financial stress, so set realistic limits. If you’re part of a blended family, resist the urge to “outdo” the other parent. Instead, consider teaming up for a joint gift, it’s kinder on your wallet and sets a great example for the kids.

Stop Unnecessary Gift Giving

Buying gifts just for the sake of it? Skip it. Thoughtful gestures matter more than price tags. Money Saving Expert Martin Lewis has some great advice on this, you can check out his thoughts on his Instagram page, here:

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Plan Ahead

Set a budget and stick to it. Write a list of what you need and allocate realistic amounts.
Experiences, not things. A day out, a cosy meal, or a movie night can be more memorable than expensive gifts.

Take Breaks When You Need Them

The lead-up to Christmas can feel relentless. Give yourself permission to pause. Whether that’s a cup of tea, a short walk, or a few minutes of mindfulness. Little breaks can make a big difference.

Share the Load

You don’t have to do everything yourself. Ask for help with wrapping, cooking, or childcare. Sharing responsibilities reduces stress and makes the season more enjoyable for everyone.

Be Honest About Your Limits

If hosting a big dinner or attending every event fills you with dread, it’s okay to say no. Protect your energy and mental health. Christmas should be joyful, not exhausting.

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Focus on What Matters Most

At its heart, Christmas is about connection. Decorating the tree, watching a film, or playing board games can be just as magical as any lavish gift.

Reach Out for Support

Feeling overwhelmed? Talk to a friend, join a support group, or seek professional help. Sharing how you feel can lighten the load.

Traditions: Keep What You Love, Let Go of the Rest

Not all traditions need to last forever. If something feels stressful or expensive, skip it!

Examples:
Christmas Eve Boxes: (I didn’t know they were a thing until I had kids!) They don’t need to be fancy. A gift bag with PJs, a book, and hot chocolate works perfectly.
Matching PJs: Choose ones you’ll wear year-round instead of seasonal sets that end up in the back of the drawer. Or, just buy new pyjamas that you actually like! There's no need for a family photo if you don't want one!
Elf on the Shelf: If it’s not fun for you, don’t do it! Or keep it simple: ask friends (and the school WhatsApp groups) for quick ideas. Set a phone reminder to “move it” when you inevitably forget!
Father Christmas Visits: These can be pricey and stressful. Waiting in a queue for a gift they don’t want. A forced ‘smile’ for the perfect picture. If your child finds the idea of Father Christmas coming into the house unannounced unsettling, explain that he’ll knock before coming in. Remember, magic doesn’t have to cost £100.FC.png

Rethink Presents

Ask your kids what they loved most last year, you might be surprised! My kids couldn’t remember what they got last year – even though they have both used and enjoyed their bikes, they had no idea when they appeared!
Often, they remember experiences more than gifts. 

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Tip: Remember pre-loved gifts can be incredible too!Pre-loved items can be amazing, they’re cheaper, eco-friendly, and often still in great condition. Pop them in a gift bag and skip the fight with the cable ties on Christmas morning!

Boundaries Matter

It’s okay not to be okay. Don’t force yourself to feel happy if you’re not.
Don’t visit if you don’t want to. If people want to see you, they’ll come to you. Let them know your house might look like a hurricane has hit and that’s fine!
Don’t force hugs and kisses. Some kids just don’t like it, and the added excitement of Christmas can make it worse. Try a high-five or fist bump instead.
The kids don’t owe you. If they’d rather play on their device than with new toys, that’s okay. New things can feel overwhelming give them time.

Food: Keep It Simple

Tip: Fed is best. don’t get worked up your child doesn’t eat Christmas dinner when you’d never give it them any other day of the year

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Shops only close for one day. No need to spend hundreds stocking up “just in case.”
Christmas dinner is a Sunday roast. Treat it like any other roast, do family service so everyone helps themselves.
Eat what you like. If turkey isn’t your thing, have something else. Skip the trimmings or sweets if you don’t want them.

Tips from Other Parents

I asked the parents in my school WhatsApp group for their best Christmas tips. Here is what they said:

“Don’t compare your situation to others (how much you’ve spent/ what activities you do/ how many gifts)” 

“Social media is the devil for painting the perfect picture when it's not always the case” 

"Comparision is the thief of joy, so don't do it!"

“Don’t worry about trying to fit in time to see everyone, down time and quiet days are good, to let the kids just play etc”

“Best thing we figured out off the back of covid. No rush, don't need to please everyone else. Let the kids enjoy their presents”

“If people want to see you, they will come to you!  But then don’t worry if the house isn’t spotless (I say this to make myself feel better like every day of the year)”

“That it's just one day so not worth the stress.”

“We don’t cram everything into the one day. Christmas Day we just chill in pjs and we hardly have a Christmas dinner just party food... takes the pressure off. We have our Christmas dinner on Boxing Day (which the kids never eat) and then we do family Christmas on 27 December”

“We went out last Christmas Day for a change, and the kids ate nothing so not doing that again!”

 

Final Thought

When children go back to school, they rarely talk about the expensive gifts, they talk about the cosy movie nights, staying in PJs all day, and laughing together. Those are the moments that truly matter.

Wishing you a wonderful end to 2025!

Katie

Wellbeing Facilitator

Why self-care matters especially this winter

17 November 2025

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Winter can be a tough time. Shorter days, colder weather, and rising pressures across services can make it harder to prioritise our own wellbeing. While we continue to care for our communities, teams and colleagues, it’s vital we don’t forget to care for ourselves.

When things get busy at work and home, self-care often slips down the list. But neglecting it can lead to burnout, low mood, and physical health issues. With Self-Care Week 2025 coming up, it’s a timely reminder to pause, reflect, and reset.

Self-care isn’t selfish, it’s essential. It helps reduce stress, boost mood, improve physical health, and strengthen relationships. Even small changes like setting boundaries, building healthy habits, or practising gratitude can make a big difference.

Not sure where to start? Your Wellbeing team is here to help. Book a personal Wellbeing Check-in and start building your own Wellbeing Action Plan. tailored to your needs and working style.

Let’s make self-care part of our routine not just something we squeeze in when we’re running on empty.

For further info on how to support your self-care throughout the year visit the dedicated Self-care YourSpace page.

Movember: testicular cancer — what every man should know

By Dr Sam Goodall, doctor in Occupational Health

11 November 2025

Movember is more than moustaches—it’s a prompt for us to catch issues early and normalise conversations that men often avoid.

Why this matters
Testicular cancer is uncommon overall, but it’s the most frequent cancer in younger adults with testes (typically 15–45). The good news: when found early, cure rates are very high (over 95%).

What to look out for
Please don’t wait for pain. Most testicular cancers are painless. See your GP promptly if you notice any of the following:

  • A lump or swelling in a testicle

  • A sense of heaviness or change in size/shape

  • The area feels firm or hard

  • A dull ache or tenderness in the lower abdomen, groin, or testicle

  • You notice a change in one/both of your testicles that is not normal for you

(Remember: most lumps aren’t cancer, but only an assessment can tell.)

How to check (takes 60 seconds in the shower)

  1. Warmth helps. After a bath or shower, stand and look for any visible changes.
  2. Use both hands. Roll each testicle gently between thumb and fingers.
  3. Know what’s normal. It’s normal for one to be slightly larger or hang lower. The soft tube at the back is the epididymis.
  4. Feel for new lumps or any overall change in consistency.
    Aim for a quick check once a month.

If you’re concerned

  • Contact your GP as soon as possible. If cancer is suspected, you should be referred urgently for an ultrasound (often on the two-week suspected cancer pathway).
  • If you develop sudden severe testicular pain, seek same-day urgent care (A&E) — this can be a torsion (twisted testicle) and needs immediate treatment.

Resources

Take-home message
A quick monthly self-check and acting on changes early saves lives. If something doesn’t feel right, book a GP appointment today.

This article offers general information for staff and isn’t a substitute for personal medical advice. If you’re worried about symptoms, please see your GP or seek urgent care as appropriate.

 

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Sam Goodall

Trainee Occupational Health Physician

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Prostate cancer awareness in Movember

27 November 2024

You may have recently seen in the media the sad news that six-time Olympic gold medallist Sir Chris Hoy has been diagnosed with palliative prostate cancer. As we are in the month of ‘Movember’, it comes as a stark reminder of the importance of increasing men’s awareness of the condition.

The prostate is a small gland under the bladder which is about the size of a walnut. Cancer of the prostate is the most common type of cancer in men in the UK. It is estimated that as many as 1 in 6 men will be diagnosed with prostate cancer in their lifetime.

While anyone with a prostate could potentially develop prostate cancer, certain factors increase the risk of it developing. It is more common in men as they get older, in men of black ethnicity, and in men who have family members with prostate cancer.

What are the symptoms?

Some men can go years without noticing any symptoms. Symptoms of prostate cancer can include:

  • Blood in your urine or semen
  • Needing to pass urine more frequently, straining while you urinate, or feeling your bladder has not fully emptied
  • Erectile dysfunction
  • Back or bone pain with no identified cause
  • Unexplained pain on passing urine, especially if it happens regularly.

These symptoms do not mean you necessarily have prostate cancer, as there are other possible causes which are more common. But it does mean you should get a check-up with your GP.

Where to find more information

For more information on prostate cancer, you can go to the NHS page on prostate cancer at https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/prostate-cancer/, or check out the ‘Movember’ link at https://uk.movember.com/men-s-health/prostate-cancer

 

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Sam Goodall

Trainee Occupational Health Physician

28 November 2024

The short answer, sometimes. 

This year, Black Friday falls on 29 November and deals will typically run until Cyber Monday, 2 December. So, it’s worth thinking about what it is you might like to buy.  

We’ve all done it, bought something because it was a cracking deal, even though, we don’t really need (or want) it. But considering the cost-of-living crisis we find ourselves in, we really need to consider what it is we are buying, and if we can actually afford it. 

Martin Lewis’ number one Black Friday tip is:

Always do price comparisons before clicking the ‘buy now’ button. There are sites that can help you with this - MoneySavingExpert.com recommend price tracking tools, CamelCamelCamel and PriceSpy 

There are also discounts available for NHS staff, through Health Service Discounts and Blue Light Card all year round, so don’t forget to check them out! 

Katie 

Health and Wellbeing Facilitator

As party season rapidly approaches, many people face a considerable amount of pressure to facilitate the “perfect holiday”. Whether this is getting into tricky financial situations trying to buy the “perfect gifts” or offering to host a dinner party for more people than you are comfortable with, our physical and mental health can suffer.

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The first step in avoiding festive burnout is to know the warning signs. If we notice early on that the plans we have made are making us feel less than jolly, we can do something about it.

Signs you have taken on too much:

  • Feeling overwhelmed or irritable
  • Physical Fatigue and trouble sleeping
  • A lack of enthusiasm for the plans you have made
  • Struggling to focus or make decisions

But of course, once we know we are overwhelmed, we need to act, so it doesn’t get worse. Setting our boundaries with expectations around gift giving, hosting and having time to relax and unwind can prove very effective, as long as you communicate clearly to loved ones what you need (or don’t need) from them, and follow your set boundaries. If you have a house full of family and friends that you are trying your best to keep happy, no one will judge you for wanting a quiet half an hour to yourself, and if they do, I wouldn’t invite them next year!

 

Delegate, delegate, delegate.

Cooking for 15 people? Ask everyone to bring a side dish, bring their own drinks, get someone to bring dessert or set the table, the more you can get your guests to do, the better. People are often keen to help and get involved, so rather than dismissing their offers of support, lean into the teamwork, and reduce the number of things you have to think about, especially if it involves the clean up afterwards. It will also be less time stuck in the kitchen or walking around with a bin bag continuously, isolated from festivities and joy.

 

Leave space for rest

While you’re scheduling in catchups with friends, kids’ parties, events, drinks with cousins and office parties, remember to leave some time where you can reconnect with yourself, to have some time to catch up with your own thoughts. I strongly recommend scheduling this into your day, whether it’s the whole of Christmas eve, an hour or two before you need to start cooking the dinner or making sure everyone has left your house before 9pm so you can curl up on the sofa with your favourite movie, hobby or even nothing at all if you fancy!

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Your experience is important too

It’s wonderful that you want your loved ones to have the best time, but what about you? What do you want out of the holidays? What are your priorities for yourself? What do you want? These questions are important to.

I’m not saying you have to put yourself on top of the festive priority list throughout the whole season (although if you did, I would applaud you) but to just keep in mind how you’re feeling, checking in on yourself and responding, with kindness, to those feelings. That is how to beat festive burnout.

So, to wrap up (pardon the pun), let’s focus on what to consider:

  • Your own feelings
  • Getting everyone involved in preparation and cleanup
  • Scheduling in rest time
  • Boundaries
  • Realistic expectations
  • Nourish your body and mind
  • Accept imperfection and embrace joy

A huge thank you to all of our colleagues that will be working over the festive break, it’s great if you want to fit in social events and excitement between shifts, but if you don’t, and you’d rather relax and unwind, that’s okay too.

Happy Holidays!

Neomi

Health and Wellbeing Facilitator

 

If you are struggling and would like to have a Wellbeing Conversation with one of our facilitators, please complete a self-referral through our OPAS system, or contact us at wellbeinghub@merseycare.nhs.uk Monday-Friday 9am-5pm, excluding bank holidays.

If you need support urgently and at anytime, please call the Samaritans on 116 123 from any phone, for free.

 

As we approach January, we start to think about New Year’s resolutions. Before we do, it’s good to ask ourselves the following three questions: 

“How often do I make New Year’s resolutions?” 

“How long do they last?” 

“How do they make me feel?” 

There’s nothing wrong with pledging to make positive changes and wanting to live your best life, however, what we set, and how we set them can negatively affect our mental wellbeing.  

Research by YouGov.co.uk found that 90% of people do not complete their resolutions, with around 25% ‘quitting’ by the end of the first week.   

 

New Year’s resolutions are often very clear cut – win or lose. But because of this it can lead us to believe if we do not keep to them, we are ‘failures’ and have a negative impact on our self esteem. 

There are several reasons why New Year’s resolutions don’t work 

1. Shame based motivation 

The most common resolutions are based around losing weight and/or quitting habits that are ‘unhealthy’.  

If we base our resolutions on shame, we’re more likely to feel bad about ourselves, and this isn’t a good place to start from when we’re looking at making tweaks or changes to our lifestyle 

2. Tradition vs motivation 

Why are we setting this resolution? Is it because we actually want to achieve it? Or is it because we think we should be seen to make a change?  

We can start to take a positive action for our wellbeing at any time during the year, whether that’s in January or July.  

3. Setting unrealistic goals 

If you want to run next year’s London Marathon, that’s great. But if you’ve not donned a pair of trainers since you left school at 16, is this really an achievable goal? 

No resolution is too small, so start there.  

4. Not planning for obstacles 

When we’re looking to make a change, things will, inevitably, get in the way. So, think about those things. Plan for them. You’re not a robot, you’re human. Therefore, you’re not perfect. Don’t be too hard on yourself when things don’t go according to plan.  

 

So how do we make New Year’s resolutions better? 

It takes between 10-12 weeks for a habit to become the norm. So, setting a resolution with a realistic timeframe is key.  

The language we use in our resolutions is really important, too. Instead of using phrases such as “This year I want to…” or “I must…”, try reframing to “I would like to…” or “I will try to…” 

Some examples of kinder resolutions may be: 

  • “I will try to eat healthier foods, but I will try to practice self-compassion when I struggle with this.”  

  • “I will try to listen to my body and give it what it needs to thrive both mentally and physically. 

  • “I will try to spend less time on my phone, and embrace being more present in my surroundings.”  

New Year’s resolutions should ultimately be about positivity, where we make positive changes to support our physical and mental wellbeing. Regardless of when we set our goals, self compassion and patience are key to achieving them. 

 

Wishing you all the best for 2025!

 

Katie

Health & Wellbeing Facilitator

If you would like to have a Wellbeing Conversation with one of our facilitators, please complete a self-referral through our OPAS system, or contact us at wellbeinghub@merseycare.nhs.uk 

Monday-Friday 9am-5pm, excluding bank holidays.

 

New Year, New Fitness-Focus

January 2025

New year can be a time to reset, set new goals and adopt healthier habits for the year ahead. For many of us, getting more structured exercise and/or simply building more general activity into our daily lives, can be high on the list. But why is being active regularly so important, and what are the best types to do and how much?...

The case for being more active

We do tend to be less active nowadays with research suggesting that as adults, we can spend more than 7 hours a day sitting down, be it at work, on transport or in leisure time. This whilst evidence is also emerging that sedentary behaviour, such as sitting or lying down for long periods, is bad for our health- inactivity has been described as a "silent killer" by the Department of Health and Social Care.

‘’We know that regular exercise helps reduce the risk of long-term illnesses and has enormous health benefits, as well as reducing pressure on the NHS.’’- NHS National Medical Director, Professor Sir Stephen Powis.

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The different types of exercise and guidelines

The current UK Physical Activity Guidelines for adults focus on four key messages:

  1. For good physical and mental health, adults should aim to be physically active every day. Any activity is better than none, and more is better still.
  2. Adults should do activities to develop or maintain strength in the major muscle groups. These could include heavy gardening, carrying heavy shopping, or resistance exercise. Muscle strengthening activities should be done at least two days a week, but any strengthening activity is better than none.
  3. Each week, adults should accumulate at least 150 minutes (2 1/2 hours) of moderate intensity activity (such as brisk walking or cycling); or 75 minutes of vigorous intensity activity (such as running); or even shorter durations of very vigorous intensity activity (such as sprinting or stair climbing); or a combination of moderate, vigorous and very vigorous intensity activity.
  4. Adults should aim to minimise the amount of time spent being sedentary, and when physically possible should break up long periods of inactivity with at least light physical activity.

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Why muscle strengthening?

Often overlooked and misunderstood, protecting space in your schedule to regularly perform muscle strengthening movements on at least 2 days per week, is time well spent. The use it or lose it principal does apply to our fitness and strength, and unfortunately with age, we are fighting the natural decline in muscle mass and bone density which typically occurs from around 50 years of age. So, challenging our bodies consistently with a form of resistance training that targets all the major muscle groups (legs, hips, back, abdomen, chest, shoulders and arms) to the point that the muscles feel temporarily fatigued and unable to repeat the exercise until rested for a short period, can improve your strength and help maintain function as we age.

There are many ways you can strengthen your muscles, whether you're at home or in a gym. Doing movements using your own bodyweight or adding weights or things like carrying heavy shopping bags and household items, can count.

Here’s are some short videos, showing examples of bodyweight exercises that you can do to focus on your legs and hips, abdomen and lower back.

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Abdomen and lower back

 Also within the Trust, there’s our yoga offerings and in person Weekly exercise classes, that can help you achieve your twice weekly target.

Cardiovascular activity

Can also be referred to as aerobic or endurance activities, these improve the strength of your heart, lungs and circulatory system. Activities should be measured in time and we should be aiming to do 150 minutes at moderate intensity per week or 75 minutes per week at vigorous intensity.

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Moderate and Vigorous activities

Although activity of any intensity provides health benefits, greater intensity provides more benefit for the same amount of time. Activities of at least moderate-to-vigorous intensity achieves the full breadth of health benefits.

Moderate activity raises your heart rate, and makes you breathe faster and feel warmer. One way to tell if you're working at a moderate intensity level is if you can still talk, but not sing.

Vigorous intensity activity makes you breathe hard and fast. If you're working at this level, you will not be able to say more than a few words without pausing for breath

Very vigorous activities are exercises performed in short bursts of maximum effort broken up with rest. This type of exercise is also known as High Intensity Interval Training (HIIT).

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Things to consider

Set realistic goals. Make sure your activity and its intensity are appropriate for your current fitness level. It’s a good idea to speak to your GP first if you have not exercised for some time, or if you have medical conditions or concerns. Fitness Instructors and Personal Trainers can help with pulling a plan together and show you how to perform exercise correctly. Qualifications can vary though and its best to check that they meet your needs. Instructor qualifications range from level 2 to 4. The higher the level, the more specialist knowledge and skills the instructor has.

The guidelines listed are suitable for disabled adults, older adults (65+), during pregnancy and for new mothers. Further details are below.

Physical activity guidelines: adults and older adults

Physical activity guidelines: disabled adults

Physical activity guidelines: pregnancy

Physical activity guidelines: after childbirth

Cost is another factor to think about. Mersey Care’s classes are free to access and our Health and Wellbeing Centre is available to use 24/7 at no charge too. Making use of the various Site Walking Maps can also be useful for getting some activity in at your base, plus a schedule for the 2025 edition of the NHS North West Games should be announced soon. External resources like the NHS Better Health website has links to apps and more free options.

 

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Daniel Melling

Health and Wellbeing Coordinator

Level 4 Certificate in Physical Activity and Weight Management for Obese and Diabetic Clients

Level 4 Certificate in Physical Activity for the Management of Low Back Pain

Level 3 Certificate in Exercise Referral for Specific Controlled Conditions

Level 3 Certificate in Personal Training

My cancer story

The title may lead you to believe that this is about my diagnosis of cancer, but that’s not the case. This is my story about having close family members who have been diagnosed with cancer. Because, when someone you love has cancer, it’s tough, for everyone.

I wanted to share my story, because if this resonates with you, as lonely a time as it can feel, please know that you are not on your own, and there are links at the end of this blog to support you. There is also a link to our Mental Health First Aid courses, to enable you to support your colleagues who may be experiencing something similar.

I also want to acknowledge the importance of cancer screening. As, without routine breast and bowel screening, the effects of cancer on my loved ones could have been different. 

Topic of the Month: World Cancer Day 2022 - Beacon Education Partnership

I was 20 when my mum was first diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukaemia (ALL). It’s only now, nearly 20 years on, I think, ‘wow, that was tough. I don’t know how I got through that’.
I felt really lonely when my mum was in hospital. Both physically and mentally. Physically lonely, because at the time, it was just me, mum and the dog living at home, so when she went into hospital, it was just me and the dog. I did, however, have a fantastic big brother, and I don’t know how I would’ve got through the 3 months mum was in hospital without him - checking in on me and staying over when he could (he lived in Wales at the time) and being my taxi (along with my dad) to and from the hospital, because I was learning to drive.

Rightly, after we told people about mum’s diagnosis, people were concerned about her and ask how she was. She was being treated at The Christie, in Manchester, so there was plenty of support available for her. But there wasn’t much in the way of support for the family, or at least, I didn’t think there was at the time, which is why, I was mentally lonely.  However, I don’t know, if, at 20, I would’ve accessed any support that was available for me.  

If people asked how I was, I gave the standard, ‘fine, thanks’, because I didn’t want to acknowledge how I felt. I knew that mum was really poorly (and because that was the word used in hospital, we knew how serious it was), and because of various complications, there was a chance she wouldn’t make it. So, if I didn’t talk about how I was feeling, it wasn’t happening. To cut an extremely long story short, we were very lucky. The treatment worked, and she was doing well for the next 15 or so years. Apart from routine check-ups at the hospital, we put cancer to the back of our minds.

However, in 2021, after routine breast screening, mum was diagnosed with breast cancer. Mentally, I was more prepared for what happens next. I was older, married with children, and I’d been through it once before, but also, we knew mum was at higher risk of developing cancers in the future after leukaemia. 80% of breast cancer cases are in women over 50, so it’s not at all uncommon (compared to her ALL diagnosis which is a rare cancer, most common in children under the age of 4 – mum was 45!)
Again, we were lucky that after surgeries to remove the lump and lymph nodes, treatment worked, and mum is doing well.

My relationship with cancer, on my side of the family, is as positive as it could be.

 

On my husband’s side of the family, it’s not as positive.

In 2020 after routine screening, my father-in-law had been diagnosed with bowel cancer. Although the initial prognosis was good, there was an air of caution, as my husband’s side of the family had already lost someone to bowel cancer. My husband made himself busy with work, and doing the hospital trips with his parents. As with many cancer stories, there are peaks and troughs, and this was no different, with 2 years of good health. But in January 2024, my father-in-law died from metastatic bowel cancer. In the few weeks before and after he died, I took on as much of the household responsibility as I could – school runs/kids’ activities/general chores around the house, as I knew these were the last things that my husband would want to think about. My husband had lost his hero. My mother-in-law lost her husband. My children had lost their grandad. Watching those four people grieve was heartbreaking, while also grieving myself.

As I mentioned at the start of this post, when someone you love has cancer, it’s tough, for everyone. But also, for a variety of reasons.

 

If someone you love has cancer, there is support available for you:

Family, friends and carers and cancer | Cancer Research UK

Emotional support for family and friends | Macmillan Cancer Support

There is also support available within Mersey Care:
If you are caring for a loved one, contact carers@merseycare.nhs.uk who are able to offer practical advice and support.

Health Hero :: YourSpace Mersey Care

Staff networks :: YourSpace Mersey Care

You may find it helpful to speak to your line manager if you require local support around flexible working or carers leave.

 

Katie

Health & Wellbeing Facilitator

National Heart Month: Tips to a Healthy Heart

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February 2025

Each year, the British Heart Foundation declares February as National Heart Month in the UK and encourages the nation to “Go red for Heart Month”. The purpose of this campaign is to raise awareness of heart and circulatory diseases. It aims to encourage a heart healthy lifestyle, promote education about heart health, and raise funds for research into heart conditions. The below statistics from the BHF represent the impact of heart disease in the UK:

  • There are more than 7.6 million people living with a heart or circulatory disease in the UK: over 4 million men and 3.6 million women.
  • Coronary heart disease (also known as ischaemic heart disease) is the most diagnosed type of heart disease. It is the most common cause of heart attack and is the single biggest killer of both and men and women worldwide. It's also the single biggest premature killer (before the age of 75) in the UK.
  • There are more than 30,000 out-of-hospital cardiac arrests in the UK each year, with a survival rate of less than 1 in 10.

In this blog, learn about what lifestyle adjustments could be made for a healthy heart!

 

Healthy eating

Eating a healthy diet can help reduce your risk of developing heart disease. Healthy eating isn’t about cutting out or focusing on individual foods or nutrients. It’s thinking about your whole diet and eating a variety of foods in the right amounts to give your body what it needs. It’s about making small, long-term changes and enjoying the food you eat. Here are some simple small ways to start building a healthier diet:

  • Base meals on higher fibre starchy carbohydrates (wholewheat pasta, brown rice, wholegrain bread, etc).
  • Get that 5-a day of fruit and veg (it isn’t as hard as you may think!) chop a banana to have with breakfast cereal, throw in some chopped veg into sauces, swap usual snacks with fruit and veg (apple, carrots with hummus, etc).
  • Eat more fish- salmon, herring, trout, tuna, haddock, mackerel etc.
  • Reduce saturated fat and sugar
  • Reduce salt intake
  • Get active
  • Stay hydrated

 

Further support here:

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Eating healthy on a tight budget: 6 top tips - BHF

Healthy eating - reduce your risk of developing heart disease - BHF

Heart Health - British Dietetic Association (BDA)

 

Be physically active

Regular physical activity is good for our bodies and minds, but it can be difficult to get started. At least 150 minutes of moderate-intensity activity over a week (around 20 or so minutes per day) or 75 minutes of vigorous activity per week is recommended. One way to tell if you're working at a moderate intensity level is if you can still talk but not sing. If you're working at a vigorous level, you will not be able to say more than a few words without pausing for breath. Speak to your GP first if you have not exercised for some time, or if you have medical conditions or concerns. Make sure your activity and its intensity are appropriate for your fitness. Here are some ideas to start building more activity into your day:

  • Stand rather than sit when you can
  • Park a bit further away/get off the bus a few stops early if able
  • Take the stairs instead of the lift if able
  • Find something you enjoy
  • Get family and friends involved
  • Track progress

Further support here:

Staying Active - BHF

How to be more active - Better Health - NHS

Site Walking Maps :: YourSpace Mersey Care

 

Smoking

  • Cigarettes contain toxic chemicals that harm your body even after you’ve finished the cigarette.
  • Some of the toxic chemicals are:

Carbon Monoxide- poisonous gas. Prevents blood from carrying oxygen around your body properly which forces your heart to work harder than it should.

Tar- stains smokers’ teeth and fingers a yellow-brown colour and is very harmful to health. It can cause cancer, lung disease, and heart disease.

Nicotine- addictive chemical found in regular cigarettes, most e-cigarettes and shisha. It increases heart rate and blood pressure.

  • Quitting smoking can greatly improve your health. It’s never too late to benefit from stopping smoking. On average, smokers who quit in their 30s will add 10 years to their life. Even quitting at 60 will add 3 years.

Further support can be found here:

Find your local Stop Smoking Service (LSSS) - Better Health - NHS

Smoke Free National Hotline- 03001231044

Heart Helpline - talk to a cardiac nurse - BHF

Quit smoking - Better Health - NHS

Smoke Free update - May 2023 :: YourSpace Mersey Care

 

Reduce stress

  • Stay positive- laughter has been found to lower levels of stress hormones, reduce inflammation in the arteries, and increase “good” HDL cholesterol.
  • Meditation- Practice of inward-focused thought and deep-breathing has been shown to reduce heart disease risk factors. Yoga can also help relax the mind and body.
  • Unplug- Take time each day, even if just 10-15 minutes to avoid emails, texts, and tv news.
  • Find a way to destress that works for you- taking a warm bath, listening to music, spending time on a hobby. These simple things can give you a much-needed break from stressors in your life.

Further support here:

Stress - BHF

Headspace for NHS

Stress Reduction Workshop :: YourSpace Mersey Care

Mindfulness :: YourSpace Mersey Care

Kind to Your Mind :: YourSpace Mersey Care

Health Hero :: YourSpace Mersey Care

 

These are just a few ways to ensure we have the healthiest hearts we can, so how about using Heart Month to make a start! If you are interested in learning more about this campaign, further information can be found here: Heart Month 2025 - BHF

Mini Health Checks at Work :: YourSpace Mersey Care - These can be useful in helping to know your numbers and developing agreed goals. There are a few dates in February, this link has further information on location, dates, and times! 

 

Rachel Unsworth

Health and Wellbeing Facilitator

Nutrition and Hydration Week 2025

 

Nutrition and Hydration Week is from 17-23 March this year. It is an annual global awareness campaign focused on the importance of proper nutrition and hydration in maintaining good health and well-being. In this blog, here are some tips on ways to eat healthier on a budget!

 

Plan meals

Planning in advanced helps to reduce costs and ensures you only buy what you need. Start off with planning for two or three days and eventually build that up for a whole week. When shopping, bring a list- this means you will be less likely to buy additional items and help to be more mindful on overall spending. Make sure to look in your cupboards before making a list so you don’t buy something you may already have! The link below has some helpful information on where to start:

How to meal plan - BHF

 

Use frozen or tinned fruits and vegetables

Frozen or tinned fruits and vegetables are just as nutritious than the fresh varieties. They also usually come already chopped and are less than half the price. Great to use when you are short on time or eating foods outside their season. Just be mindful of tinned foods stored in syrups or juices, due to sugar content.

 

Cook smarter

Using a slow cooker can be cheaper to run than an oven and you can make multiple portions of food in a slow cooker to be frozen for future meals. Air Fryers are also great to produce crispy meals using less oil and are also cheaper to run than an oven. If you do need to use an oven, make sure to use it to cook multiple items at once for maximum benefit.

 

End of the day discounts

Often supermarkets will cut prices of products towards the end of the day if they may be expiring on that day. This means great discounts! If you get any meat or fish items, they can be frozen on the day and used at a later date.

 

Protein on a budget

Plant proteins- like beans, lentils, and tofu are usually the cheapest way to get protein and with being lower in saturated fat than meat, are a great choice for heart health too! If you want to include meat in your diet, extra-lean mince is the healthiest way to buy mince, but it does cost more. If you need to buy the cheapest mince, you can reduce the fat if you cook it the day before, allow it to cool, refrigerate, and then remove the fat from the top the next day. Tinned fish is cheaper than fresh and doesn’t even need cooking.

 

Cheap and healthy snacks

Bananas, satsumas and apples make good-value snacks and don’t need any preparation, or if you have a little more time, making carrot and celery sticks can be even cheaper per portion, and any leftovers can be used in soups or stews. Making your own popcorn instead of buying it ready-made, or as an alternative to crisps, can save money and can also be healthier, if you have it plain or flavoured with herbs and spices instead of salt, sugar or butter. If you need ideas on quick, easy, and healthy snacks, click the link below:

10 quick and easy healthy snack ideas - BHF

 

Adding healthy carbs

Wholegrain versions of bread, pasta, or rice don’t necessarily cost more than the white versions. They’ll help to keep your digestive system healthy and can be more filling too. Porridge oats are a healthy choice, and cheaper than many cereals. The link below has different porridge recipes you can try:

14 delicious healthy porridge ideas - Heart Matters Magazine - BHF

 

Where to get more support

Find out more about what support is available across the Liverpool City Region and Cheshire localities:

Knowsley food and household essentials

Halton: Help with Food

Liverpool food help services

The Sefton Directory: keeping healthy and well

St Helens food banks and community pantries

Warrington food support

Wirral community food support

You can also contact Citizens Advice for help with locating your local food bank and whether you can get a referral:

Citizens Advice appointments :: YourSpace Mersey Care

If you’re over 50, Age UK offer help with claiming benefits – their Advice Line is 0800 678 1602. They can also support with helping to find your local food bank and whether you can get a referral. Ways to contact us and FAQs | Age UK

 

Rachel,

Health and Wellbeing Facilitator

28 July 2025

The summer holidays can be a tough gig!

You won’t be alone if you are dreading the summer holidays. The thought of six-weeks at home can be daunting, especially if you’re trying to juggle work too.

A school year is 190 days long, which leaves 175 days not in school. That’s far more day’s annual leave than either me or my husband are entitled to!

In our family, of those 175 days, the summer holidays account for 43.

 

Regardless of if you booked time away this time last year, or you’re looking for a last-minute deal, holidays are expensive and not everyone is fortunate enough to be able to afford to go away (whether that’s a staycation or holiday abroad).

If you don’t have a holiday booked, and you’re dreading seeing all of the holiday snaps on social media, it may be a good time to consider taking yourself off those platforms for a little while – or perhaps unfollow the people you know who are going away and might post online.

If you haven’t done so already, it’s not too late to plan things to do over the summer.
Sit down as a family and discuss what you’d like to do over the holidays – maybe each member of the family gets to choose one activity to do. But the adults need to be realistic about what’s achievable.
For example: It might be on the wish list to go to Alton Towers, if you pre-book online it’s around £37 per ticket (double it to pay on the gate), that’s £148 for a family of 4, before adding on all of the extras. Consider if that is something that you can actually afford to do.
 

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There are quick (and free) wins you can get involved with

  • Reading Challenge
    The Reading Agency have an annual summer reading challenge, encouraging children to read six books through the summer holidays, children can take part online, or at their local library. More information can be found here: www.summerreadingchallenge.org.uk   
  • Summer Journal
    Encourage your children to write down what they have been doing over summer – it will help your children to not forget how to hold a pen (we’ve all been there) but gets them to reflect on what they have done and enjoyed over the six weeks. If you start before the break, it may help you to plan what activities to do! There are ideas for holiday journals on our Parent Mental Health page on YourSpace
  • Movie Day & Free stuff
    Let’s face it, the only thing predicable about British weather, is its unpredictability. Some days will be a wash out – use this time to close the curtains, grab some snacks and blankets and enjoy your favourite family films. Take it in turns to pick a film to watch
  • Embrace your inner kid
    Get involved with your child(ren). Build dens, jump in puddles, go as high as you can on a swing at the park. Embrace your inner child and live in the moment with them. You’ll all have a great time, and you’ll remember what it’s like to live in their world!

Things like movie days and just joining in playing with your kids are likely to be the memories that really stick with them – and they don’t need to cost anything!

You can also access Health Service Discounts and Tickets for Good – more information can be found on our Financial Wellbeing page on YourSpace
 

 

Working from home can also be a challenge when the kids are not in school. If you haven’t already spoken to your line manager about flexible/hybrid working over the school holidays, this is your reminder! This doesn’t have to be a permanent change to your working pattern, if it’s due to last under 28 days, this can be arranged informally with your line manager. But remember, if there are other adults in the house, are they able to work flexibly, too? It doesn’t all have to land with you. Here are some other tips that you may find useful:

  • Create a schedule that you can share with your family – set out clear hours for work, but also family time, so everyone knows the expectations.
  • Schedule in short breaks, not just for yourself, but also to spend time with your kids. It doesn’t have to be long periods without working, but by spending a bit of quality time with your family (or even just yourself) will help to prevent burnout
  • Prepare age-appropriate activities that your children can be occupied with while you work – these could be educational apps (e.g. TT Rockstars/Numbots if your child’s school use them, CBeebies apps), or tasks that they can complete solo (Lego, colouring in etc)
  • Don’t worry if your kids are on screens more than you’d ideally like. Click the image below to find out more:

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  • Work in the quiet! If your kid(s) like to have a lie in over the holidays, make use of the quiet time to complete important tasks. If it’s feasible and you have agreed with your line manager, perhaps you can catch up on work in the evening if you have spent family time in the day.
  • Remember your work/life balance we have a session dedicated to keeping well while you work from home

If you start to find the summer holidays overwhelming and feel you need some support, please reach out.

There is plenty of support available for you to access. Visit the Parent Mental Health page on YourSpace to find out more, and remember:

"There is no such thing as a perfect parent, so just be a real one."

Sue Atkins
Parenting Coach, as seen on This Morning

 

Katie

Health & Wellbeing Facilitator

 

If you are struggling and would like to have a Wellbeing Conversation with one of our facilitators, please complete a self-referral through our OPAS system, or contact us at wellbeinghub@merseycare.nhs.uk Monday-Friday 9am-5pm, excluding bank holidays.

If you need support urgently and at anytime, please call the Samaritans on 116 123 from any phone, for free.