Publish date: 28 January 2022
Many of us at some time in our lives have worried and wondered if we should speak up about something that has happened and what will happen if we do. All sorts of ideas go through our minds including - will we get into trouble?, did it really happen?, will it make a difference?, has someone else raised it , how will I do it? and what will other people think?
We all can be afraid of hurting another person, looking mean or foolish, or opening a can of worms that will make a mess in everyone's lives. Sometimes it seems like staying silent is the wiser choice. But here are five reasons why despite the risk, standing up and having your say is a good thing.
1. Silence is deemed approval -You may think that staying silent keeps you from being involved in any conflict, but quite the opposite. Silence is as much an active form of communication as talking. If the problem persists and you did nothing people may consider it as enabling and think the issue is as much your fault as the person who actually caused the problem.
2. The greater good should be the priority - Many stay silent because they don't want to do any harm by offending or criticizing someone. But when a person or the team is headed down a dangerous path it need someone to think about the bigger picture and consider that by staying silent, you may be harming the very people you hope to help.
3. Demonstrate you are invested - Raising a concern shows that you are committed to the work that you are doing and want the best for all involved . Honesty actually builds trust, especially when combined with tact and empathy. Speaking up can demonstrate that you will be truthful with people, that you care about them.
4. No one else may know. We cannot assume the obvious is obvious. Your experience and knowledge has value in a given situation. No one else has your unique perspective.. Your piece of the puzzle may be one of the most important parts of jigsaw which will help find an answer to the problem. If you wait around for people to notice or read your mind, you will likely end up on many paths that are not of your own choosing.. Gather up your confidence , seek guidance and support so that sharing feels more comfortable.
5 You may not be alone in your thinking - It's entirely possible that your insightful observations and conclusions have surfaced in the minds of others. Others may share your thoughts and opinions, but may be also unwilling to speak up. By Sharing your views you encourage them to voice their opinions as well. If everyone holds back, things may silently get worse .
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